David:
I appreciate your gracious response, brother.
And your specific answer to my question about all who claim to be saved. Your answer is biblical and confessional--not all who make the claim are necessarily partakers of salvation.
I also appreciate it when you end by saying, "our discussions have been in the context of believers." This is just the question, though, isn't it? Am I necessarily a believer because I am on this board, confess what I do, and am even a teacher in Christ's church? No. All of that is but refuse as far as my eternal destiny is concerned, rightly understood.
I am sinner, through and through, desperately in need every moment of a Savior, and having none at all, and no hope whatseover, but Christ. I am thinking of Paul here in Philippians 3, brother. The reason that I have assurance is not because of anything that I am or have or do, but because of who Christ is and what He has done for me. Now, He who has justified me freely and adopted me graciously also sanctifies me. But if I dare not trust the sweetest frame, I dare trust nothing but Jesus' name. And when I do, I desire to live for Him and Him alone, though I fall so short and fail miserably in this.
If you are saying that this should all be easy--If I believe on Him, I should have assurance, this misses the reality of the dynamic of a living relationship. It does not work this way in real life relationships nor in my relationship with Christ. There are many ups and downs and my assurance ebbs and flows with that. Yes, I should have assurance perfectly all the time and not have it intermitted by my sin and struggles. I also should not sin. The reality, however, of all of this is beautifully realized in WCF 18, especially the reasons for intermitting of assurance by 18.4:
"True believers may have the assurance of their salvation divers ways shaken, diminished, and intermitted; as, by negligence in preserving of it, by falling into some special sin which woundeth the conscience and grieveth the Spirit; by some sudden or vehement temptation, by God's withdrawing the light of his countenance, and suffering even such as fear him to walk in darkness and to have no light: yet are they never utterly destitute of that seed of God, and life of faith, that love of Christ and the brethren, that sincerity of heart, and conscience of duty, out of which, by the operation of the Spirit, this assurance may, in due time, be revived; and by the which, in the meantime, they are supported from utter despair."
Assurance is the problem that it is, and not as simple as you want to make it (at least so it seems to me), because we have remaining sin. Yes, we can have infallible assurance, but even that ebbs and flows as does our faith and repentance. One can get frustrated over this, just like one can be frustrated at the incomprehensibility of God and all His ways: How can God be three-in-one, how can Christ have two natures in one person, how can He be sovereign and I responsible, how can I believe and yet sometimes question whether I really believe? Assurance is not an all or nothing proposition, and it's unsurprising that, since we differ in degrees of sanctification, we will differ in degrees of assurance.
Peace,
Alan