Originally posted by BaptistInCrisis
I might as well go ahead and toss in here the fact that my church has a Plymouth Brethren style 2nd half to every Sunday morning service. It will be interesting to see what types of harassment I receive because of that. You can be as Calvinistic as you want, but just don't you dare try to take 1 Corinthians 14 seriously now . . . we can't have more than one person standing up to speak in church, after all . . .
Joe - I am not exactly sure how your church has a "Plymouth Brethren style" in the second half of your service. Perhaps you mean that individuals can stand up and glorify God through testimony? If so, I have absolutely no problem with that. My comment regarding the Plymouth Brethren had more to do with their history of spreading dispensationalism and some other doctrinal positions. I find some of their worship practices to be refreshing.
Yes, I was referring to our weekly Lord's Supper meeting, during which individual men take turns standing a glorifying God, reading Scripture, praying, etc.
Like you, I have a big problem with dispensationalism.
Originally posted by BaptistInCrisis
Do at least some of you see what I'm talking about? A lot of people on this board don't just attack those who are utterly against them. Instead, they attack people who are predominantly ON THEIR SIDE!
Luke 9:50 But Jesus said to him, "Do not hinder him; for he who is not against you is for you."
We ARE on the same side! Yet we not only shoot or own, we torture them afterwards. We are guilty of hindering the work of Christ through those that we malign and marginalize. But we need to develop this thought a little further.
Are there any doctrinal disagreements that should cause us not to have unity with a brother? That is not an easy question to answer. We have to be wise and discerning. The attitude and motive of each individual needs to be taken into consideration. Selfish motives or hidden agendas certainly do not foster unity or agreement. There may also be some doctrinal areas that are inherently devisive. Joe brought up the topic of paedobaptism vs. credobaptism. For some, that is cause enough to separate. I will not debate whether that is right or wrong. But if a brother of mine is separate on the issue of baptism, does that mean we cannot have unity on those areas that we do agree on? My ability to have unity with a brother may be stunted if that brother were to beat me over the head with his doctrinal position. Sometimes were are going to have to agree to disagree. But so long as the different doctrinal positions do not negate the gospel, I can still have a degree of unity with my brother.
Do not confuse my call to unity with a lack of ecclesiastical oversight. I am one of three elders in my church. I would oppose any attempt to promote someone to church leadership who is not in complete agreement with our doctrinal statement. I would also support church discipline on any member who was trying to subvert official church teaching.
And this is certainly where the rubber meets the road. And instead of just immediately leaving my church, I chose a multi-step process:
1) Do not baptize my girls behind the elders' backs. Submit to them, let them know my doctrinal change, and let them know my desire to discuss the issue with them.
2) If I converted back to credo, or if they converted to paedo, then great.
3) If neither they nor I budged, then respectfully let them know that I must follow my conscience and get my kids baptized.
4) If they felt compelled to exercise church discipline against me at this point, then I *would* be forced to leave the church and join another one.
5) If they disagreed with me over baptism, but agreed with me that baptismal differences should not divide, then I would get my girls baptized elsewhere, but continue to worship with my brothers and sisters at MBC.
So, as you can see, I fully recognize that there are some cases where you *have* to leave a church over doctrinal differences (such as baptism). However, note that it would not be such a case of me *leaving*, as it would be a case of me being pretty much *thrown out*. I think this distinction is critical!
Even regarding the much more important issues of the early 1500s, note that Martin Luther did not "leave" the Roman Catholic church. Rather, he tried to bring reform to the church. But then the RC church expelled *him*. So it wasn't so much a matter of Luther leaving the church as it was a case of him being *compelled* to leave the church.
However, thankfully, in my case, the elders of my church went route #5 rather than route #4. So I can still obey God according to my conscience regarding baptism, and my elders still remain convinced credobaptists, and we can still worship and fellowship together in unity in Christ.
I gave the above description of my thought process, not to revisit baptism itself, but just to show how I think a unity-driven approach might look. I'm not naive enough to think that unity can be preserved in all cases. I am just suggesting that Scripture compels us to seek unity whenever and wherever possible, and only to leave a church as a *last resort*.
Originally posted by BaptistInCrisis
A direct command in Scripture is to "remain where you are called".
Joe, where do you get this from? I believe we should remain in our local church even though there may be some differences of opinion. But if our doctrinal position is vastly different from that of the church, it may be hard for us to remain unless we are able to submitt. If a person cannot willingly submit, then they should leave.
Good point. Thankfully, in my case, I am able to believe differently from the elders on baptism, and yet still submit to them. Why is this possible in my case? It is possible because the elders are just as committed to unity as I am (in fact, probably moreso). The official word from the elders is:
"The Bible teaches the credo position. But if your conviction of Scripture is paedo, then you must obey God according to your conviction."
By taking this stance, they don't weaken any of their credo arguments. Rather, they simply make it clear that the official position of the elders is, "baptism should not be the source of division".
Thus, in my case, I am not in rebellion against the elders whatsoever. We have agreed to disagree on baptism, and to
continue working side by side for the Gospel.
Originally posted by BaptistInCrisis
Joe made some great points. Good post.
Thank you, my brother! You too made some good points. I am enjoying this discussion with you.