Thank you very much for your post, Alan. I have thought for some time that there is no church, no pastor, no communion from which I could not be driven away by focusing on their failures; it is only Christ who can perfectly satisfy even an all-consuming mental scrutiny and never disappoint the most fervent devotion.
And it seems that one of our most frequent failures is in the command expressed more than once in Romans, to receive one another to the glory of God. Whether we simply forget it, or whether we lose patience because someone does not make progress apparent to us in the (always partial) areas of holiness that we care about most, or at a rate of progress that suits us, we often fall notoriously short in this regard - and yet we can err in an identical way by not receiving someone for whom receiving others is also a particular struggle!
Just a few days ago I spent 20 minutes delivering a stern mental lecture to someone on the topic that his pet peeve did not count for more than the pet hang up of the person who triggered his point of irritation. Fortunately I was driving and not able to give voice to my first thoughts; by the time I remembered that if Earl Peeve needed to receive Mistress Hang-up I also needed to receive Earl Peeve, it would appear that his lordship had decided it would be best to be longsuffering.
I should probably call a halt: when you have touched on two points as dear to my heart and as much in my thoughts as our sister Margaret and the command for mutual reception, I must especially beware of derailing threads.
And it seems that one of our most frequent failures is in the command expressed more than once in Romans, to receive one another to the glory of God. Whether we simply forget it, or whether we lose patience because someone does not make progress apparent to us in the (always partial) areas of holiness that we care about most, or at a rate of progress that suits us, we often fall notoriously short in this regard - and yet we can err in an identical way by not receiving someone for whom receiving others is also a particular struggle!
Just a few days ago I spent 20 minutes delivering a stern mental lecture to someone on the topic that his pet peeve did not count for more than the pet hang up of the person who triggered his point of irritation. Fortunately I was driving and not able to give voice to my first thoughts; by the time I remembered that if Earl Peeve needed to receive Mistress Hang-up I also needed to receive Earl Peeve, it would appear that his lordship had decided it would be best to be longsuffering.
I should probably call a halt: when you have touched on two points as dear to my heart and as much in my thoughts as our sister Margaret and the command for mutual reception, I must especially beware of derailing threads.