I can recommend two works to read:
The Marrow of Modern Divinity
John Owen on Overcoming Sin and Temptation:
https://www.amazon.com/Overcoming-T...r=8-3&keywords=john+owen+mortification+of+sin
There has been some excellent advice in this thread.
Owen's book was transformative for me in my struggles with lust. Until I reckoned sin as a constant enemy I was not giving regular battle to tempation and turning to Christ for power over its allure. One of the reasons many Christians fail in temptation is that they are not giving battle to sin and its subtleties.
I recommend the Marrow of Modern Divinty as it lays out so well the nature of the Gospel in the Covenant of Grace and the errors antinominans and neonomians make in failing to understand the difference between being in Adam with respect to the law and being in Christ.
Ed Walsh quoted the WCF on sanctification and you can see the contours of Puritan thinking on the nature of our relationship to Christ in how we battle sin and how he sanctifies us.
In Adam we are guilty of Adam's sin, corrupt in our whole nature (sinner), and slaves to sin and its demands. God is our Judge and we are at enmity with Him.
Under the Covenant of Grace, we are in Christ. We are united to Him. By faith we are united to Christ's death and resurreciton. The guilt and penalty of sin has been atoned for but Christ unites us still as corrupt sinners. Our relationship to God is no longer as under judgment but we are His children. Christ, in His death, not only paid the penalty for sin but defeated sin's power to enslave us. We are united to Christ's indestructible life and are able to resist sin and tempation.
The Puritans had a beautiful analogy of being hooked to a belt.
We were hooked to Adam's belt: Guilty, Corrupt in our whole person, and liable to God's wrath.
Christ, in the Gospel, has unhooked us from the belt of Adam and hooked us to His belt. We are counted righteous in Him and no longer guilty but He books corrupt sinners to His belt. He is not content to let us remain corrupt but makes us holy (sanctifies us) in our person.
Thus, in Christ, we are to reckon ourselves as dead to sin and its power. Its power to enslave us has been broken by the power of Christ's death and resurrection.
In the Pilgrim's Progress, Christian is captured and put in the dungeon of Great Despair. Great Despair beats he and his companion up and threatens him with death. His wife counsels Great Despair that, on the morrow, he will tear them limb from limb and that they ought to take their own life.
Suddenly Christian comes to himself and realizes that, in his bosom, the whole time was the Key of Promise. This key unlocks every prison door and they escape from Great Despair's dungeon and continue on their way.
So long as Christian believed Great Despair he believed he as under the dominion of a power greater than himself. As soon as he remembered his possession he found he had the key of escape on his person the entire time.
Trust in Christ's Promise and your possession of Christ's power more than the power of sin.
SSA arises out of our corruption. It is sin not in the sense that it is the commission of an actual sin but it is sin in the sense that it belongs to the Curse of the Fall. It can and must be starved out and put to death. It is not neutral but, like all lust, needs to be killed.
Christ alone has that power. You are His possession and He has all authority and power. He is a faithful High Priest interceding for us. He is a faithful Prophet bringing the power of the Gospel to our thinking to transform our minds through the reading of the Word and the preaching of the Gospel. He is our King and will defeat every foe standing in the way of making His Bride beautiful.
Trust this Christ more than the allure of your corruption. Outside of Him you are powerless. United to Him you have the power of an indestructible life!