Dennis,
I'm not sure what your question is about. The point of Jn.9:20-23 is that the blind man was being treated (if not in fact) as a man not under parental-authority, not a "subordinate" of their house. In some respects, if not in most relevant respects, he was his own man and not subject to his parent's rule. His parents distance themselves from him,
because they want to avoid giving impression that their son's "sin" implicates them as responsible parties.
What is your understanding of "answering for oneself"? When such a right is granted, is it absolute? Or is it granted, sometimes, by degrees? And who grants the right? If I ask my child if he wants a spoonful of pudding or jello for dessert, I am letting him "speak for himself," though but a small child. But I won't be letting him decide when he may set foot off our property any time soon. The issues at stake are greater or lesser.
Some people "answer for themselves" because they can, or they should. Others do not so answer because they cannot (actually or legally), or they will not. Sometimes, someone tries to speak for someone else, and they fail or are contradicted. Other times, someone refuses to speak for someone else, because he doesn't want the responsibility. Gen.24:54-57 contains an episode where the opportunity to "speak for oneself" is granted to Rebekah from those who are originally asked for permission. In Israel, a husband or father could nullify a wife's or daughter's oath, Num.30:3-8. As my children grow up, they will be allowed to "speak for themselves" in greater and greater degree. But I do not let them make "big decisions" for themselves right now. This is life, and the Bible accommodates ordinary human experience.
I believe, and have stated on the PB many times, that recalcitrant servants were NOT circumcised in Abraham's house--but were certainly excluded from family life in significant ways, if not dismissed (perhaps after being given some time to think about their decision) to find other employment. It is absurd to think that Abraham grabbed a knife, and with a mad glittering in his eye roared like a Pirate,
"Grab ye a whiskey, and get ye in line, mateys! We're having an initiation! Hold him down, lubbers! Wot, if y' squirm like that, y' may end up with more on the floor! hahahahaha!"
If one felt duty-bound in some sense to proceed, well that's still voluntary. Sorry, but I cannot imagine an "involuntary" circumcision, outside of the designated children. Abraham would have sent those people away, before he subjected them to a cut they refused.
Many of these people were men of faith anyway. Long before circumcision, Abraham left Ur (and later Haran) "not knowing whither he went." He preached faith in an alien and invisible God whom he had come to know by grace out of his idolatry. And he told folks he was going to uproot his settled life and follow the Lord's leading... somewhere (I dunno?). And the same Spirit who moved him to abandon his country and comforts for the sake of an elusive "promise" also moved others to abandon the rest of their lives and families to sojourn with him in the same journey of faith.
In Haran, there was another opportunity for some to abandon Abraham and this journey of faith. And we know that some of the family did--because they were still there when it was time to get a wife for Isaac, and later Jacob as well. Abraham did not rope them all up, and drag them along captive because he was the clan-chief, and everyone did what he said, "or else."
So, do we really think there was much opposition in the house to following Abraham in circumcision? Do we really think that he acted like an inscrutable dictator, giving forth no reason for his mutilating commandment? Or is it more likely that he preached the Word he was given (concerning circumcision) to his church, as he must have been since the beginning in Chaldea? And his people hung onto that Word.
We know that in Israel, there were households with sojourners, hired servants, and slaves who were not circumcised, and those were forbidden to participate in Passover. So, there must have been some obvious limits on "forcing" people to become members in Israel.
re. Act.16:34,
1) The point the text makes utilizes an emphasis on the faith of one, which has cumulative effects on his household. Th Jailer's story follows another episode (Lydia) in which the same emphasis is made. For some reason, at two opportunities, the faith of one is Luke's textual ground for the baptism of the whole house. Comparatively, when Cornelius' household is evangelized (Act.10), the infilling of Holy Spirit is upon all, the faith of many is manifested, and the many's possession of Holy Spirit is the noted textual ground for the baptism that follows. So, Act.16 does not simply make the exact same point in different words; it broadens our understanding.
2) I've always entertained the reasonable hope that there were some other household members who were thoroughly converted that same night.
3) The text doesn't have to affirm the ages/status of any in particular, because the definition of "household" is inclusive. A cursory review of Scriptural data confirms this. Exclusionary exceptions are always "noted," where relevant, precisely because of the assumptions otherwise conveyed by the terminology. Because I do not accept the theological
a priori that
infants do not receive the sign of the covenant of grace in the New Covenant, I have every reason to read "household" as inclusionary in ANY case whatsoever, whether Lydia's or the Jailer's had such in fact.
I don't believe people were forced to be baptized any more than I believe they were forced into circumcision. I think there have been people who were baptized, who certainly were capable of objecting--in heart or by mouth--but who did not. No, but they consented. Just because one is
able to do something doesn't imply obligation to do so. These baptized allowed, properly or improperly, someone else to speak on their behalf. The thing to recall is: that allowance doesn't get one "off the hook" when time comes to give another answer, namely to justify the association.
So, to sum up my reply, I don't think "
slaves, employees, grown children, etc," were baptized with any more haste than the corresponding persons were circumcised in the OT. The issue isn't whether such persons were ever marked, properly so, and that on the basis of their association with a head of house who was faithful. Nor is it an issue if some persons in similar circumstances have received different treatment. The issue is whether any who resisted, or who asserted their right or were granted a right to speak for themselves, were marked by the sign of the covenant
without regard to their objections. My position doesn't compel me to the view that they were.