Andrew: Dude, women are recipients of pastoral care, too.
If I may be so blunt: there's a whole lot more to pastoring people than will be covered by the puritans' books. In my opinion, after about 10 years of ordained ministry, & several years before that in unordained service & seminary, I have come to the iron-clad conviction that two of the greatest weaknesses of our Reformed world are addressed by Dr. Keller & Mrs Hunt. Namely, the vitally important roles of the deaconate & women's ministry in the local parish.
In our (P&R) system, deacons are, for the most part, sitting around wondering what the heck they're supposed to do. And women's ministries are in too many cases gossip clubs, continual drippings to the elders, or well-intended but ineffectual.
In the face of this, the minister has a vital role in equipping those saints for their work of ministry. Women's ministry, as Mrs. Hunt describes it so well, is the vital "ezer kenegdo" to the Kingdom work of the deaconate. The paracletic work of a well-run women's ministry, paired to the life-transforming works of "mercy, piety, & necessity" of a healthy deaconate, will make the difference between Reformed & Presbyterian churches being "holy huddles" or self-righteous theology clubs on the one hand, and fountainheads of a Third Great Awakening on the other.
Shalom.