Ploutos
Puritan Board Sophomore
My wife and I have immediate family in-state, roughly an hour and a half away (though her family and mine are in different directions). With my M-F job, our main chance to visit with them is on weekends, and we do so maybe once a month as a very rough average.
Both sides are believing and worship at Reformed churches that we are comfortable attending. When we have overnight lodging options, we will go down on Saturday; other times, we'll go down and come back on Sunday. We will generally worship with them, followed by a family meal and social time.
These are the particular implications of this arrangement that I wrestle with regarding such journeys:
1) We are not in attendance at the church wherein our membership resides.
2) We generally do not attend evening worship (one church doesn't have it; the other does, but we have little ones and are usually on the way back at that time).
3) We are driving a substantial distance on the Sabbath. That said, we live 25-30 minutes away from our home church and still spend nearly 2 hours on the road each Sunday.
4) It makes our weekends less restful, especially from a childcare perspective; of course, it's not as if managing young children is magically easy in one's default environment.
How can I apply my desire to be faithful to the 4th Commandment (and, secondarily, to my church membership vows) to this situation?
Both sides are believing and worship at Reformed churches that we are comfortable attending. When we have overnight lodging options, we will go down on Saturday; other times, we'll go down and come back on Sunday. We will generally worship with them, followed by a family meal and social time.
These are the particular implications of this arrangement that I wrestle with regarding such journeys:
1) We are not in attendance at the church wherein our membership resides.
2) We generally do not attend evening worship (one church doesn't have it; the other does, but we have little ones and are usually on the way back at that time).
3) We are driving a substantial distance on the Sabbath. That said, we live 25-30 minutes away from our home church and still spend nearly 2 hours on the road each Sunday.
4) It makes our weekends less restful, especially from a childcare perspective; of course, it's not as if managing young children is magically easy in one's default environment.
How can I apply my desire to be faithful to the 4th Commandment (and, secondarily, to my church membership vows) to this situation?